Relationship/Soul Contracts

Our Souls come here to learn, grow, evolve through a variety of experiences - beautiful and challenging ones.

When our Soul’s learning with another individual, such as a partner, friend, and so on, is complete and a point has been reached where individual growth is stunted in that particular relationship dynamic, then it is highly possible that a soul contract with this person has ended.

Relationships coming to an end is NOT A FAILURE. Quite the opposite actually - it is often a sign of personal growth!

We all have the free will to continue relationships that are no longer serving us (relationships which are no longer in alignment with our Soul).

However, when we are misaligned, this creates energetic congestion, which will eventually lead to physical and/or mental health symptoms.

Our inner voice is always speaking to us. If we quiet down and get still long enough, we can sense these messages. If we don’t hear them earlier on, our inner voice will start to speak to us through discomfort in our bodies (symptoms are the manifestation of energetic blocks).

Limiting beliefs/programming in our subconscious minds (from childhood or our ancestors) and stuck emotions can cloud our ability to hear these messages and access our innate clarity and discernment about the health of our relationships and what we need to do.

Good news is: these beliefs and emotions can be cleared!

I’ve had experiences of my own over the last decade, and I’ve seen this in my clients over and over again: that when those limiting beliefs are cleared and the past wound around the belief healed, it becomes clear what to do - how to improve the relationship or that a relationship has an expiry date and that action is needed to be taken to let it go.

Honouring the truth that your Soul is done its learning with someone takes a lot of courage. It is to be celebrated. It’s self-loving. No matter how hard it is to let go - choosing yourself, your well-being, and listening to your intuition is always the right thing to do, no matter how much it may hurt others and feel uncomfortable initially.

Let yourself grieve and feel all the emotions! Just because it’s the right thing to do, does not mean it doesn’t hurt. Healing and living in flow requires us to get comfortable with the uncomfortable! 

Navigating the letting go process consciously (consciously uncoupling) can be an incredibly healing practice. In this scenario, both people are willing to be vulnerable, authentic, and compassionate with each other about all the challenges, what they appreciated about each other, and what they learned and also choose to respect each other’s boundaries in the process.

It is not about making the other person wrong or blaming, but instead choosing to honour the Soul Contract between two people, its purpose as well as its completion.

I’ve received a lot of feedback over the years from clients about their relationships shifting after our sessions - either there was a really beautiful shift in the relationship as a result of the work we did or strong clarity came in that it was over and they had to move on.

I celebrate both of those results equally as neither option is choosing to remain feeling stagnant, but instead they are consciously choosing to align with flow, love, and truth.

If you are navigating challenges in relationships and want to get more clarity by clearing out what is keeping you feeling stuck and uncertain about the path that is right for you, I’d love to help!

I won’t tell you what you need to do about your relationships (i.e. stay or go), I’ll simply support you in clearing the mental and emotional blocks to getting the answers for yourself!

If that sounds helpful, book a free 20-min call to see if we are a good fit to work together!

Also, if you are looking for a lovely resource on the subject of consciously uncoupling click HERE.

With love,

Melissa